At SEK International Institution schools, grades are only part of our children’s educational experience. Beyond a grade, every learning experience, mistake, and effort shapes their character and prepares them for the future. As parents, it is crucial that we value the learning process and the development of skills that will last a lifetime. In the end, what truly matters is not the number on a sheet of paper, but how they apply what they’ve learned and become better people.

Listen to your child’s concerns about grades. Give your child space to express their feelings and concerns about their grades. This will not only allow them to vent, but will also encourage open and honest communication. By listening, we show them that their concerns are important and valid. Reaffirm your unconditional love and support. It is essential that your child know that your love is not dependent on their academic achievements. Reaffirm your unconditional support, regardless of their grades. This provides a safe environment where they can grow and learn without fear of rejection.

Encourage self-assessment. Help your child reflect on their performance and identify areas for improvement. Self-assessment promotes self-awareness and teaches them to take responsibility for their own learning. This will prepare them to be critical and independent learners in the future. Set realistic and achievable goals. Work with your child to define clear and achievable objectives. Help them develop effective study habits that will allow them to achieve these goals. Realistic goals provide a roadmap and constant motivation to continue improving.

Get involved in their learning. Actively participate in their educational process. Reading together, discussing topics of interest, or visiting museums and libraries are activities that enrich their learning and strengthen the family bond. This shared interest shows that you value their education and are willing to support them.

Recognize and celebrate small achievements. Every little step counts. Celebrating small accomplishments motivates your child and shows them that their effort is appreciated. This practice builds a positive and resilient mindset, essential for facing future challenges.

Praise effort, not just the outcome. Encourage a growth mindset by praising effort and perseverance instead of focusing solely on the end result. This will teach them that learning is a continuous process and that mistakes are opportunities for improvement.

Valuing the learning process and the effort it entails beyond just grades is essential for our children’s overall development. Through these tips, we can support them effectively, strengthening their self-esteem and preparing them for the future.

Dayanna Cevallos
Student Counseling Department
SEK Guayaquil International School